Selling Situations
by Alan J. Zell
The word “selling” takes on different meanings
to different people at different times. Most people, even those “in
sales,” seldom agree with the oft used statement, “All selling
is the same.”
Those selling products, divide themselves first into these categories:
I go to the customer or the customer comes to me. Then they divide themselves
into classifications of manufacturing, wholesaling/distribution, or retailing.
Add to these the sub-divisions, large vs. small products, durable vs.
consumable products, etc., and the differences grow, and grow, and grow.
And all sellers, no matter what classification they fit into, believe
that the others' arenas for selling are always easier.
But not everyone sells products. There are those who sell services.
It is said that selling services is the largest and fastest-growing segment
of the economy. Services are much more difficult to sell and sellers of
services will tell anyone who will listen, because customers can't hold
it, drop it, break it, or kiss it. This makes their forms of selling different
from and more difficult than other forms of selling. Lastly, there are
those who will adamantly state, “I'm not in sales, I'm in __________!”
(You may fill in the blank with any industry or job title other than “sales”.)
To those “not in sales” selling is something others do. I believe
they take this attitude so that they will not be caught or accused of
being in sales. Unfortunately, it is these people who usually end up making
decisions about selling for themselves and their firms.
Is all selling is the same? Yes, because everyone shares the same
four Selling Situations -- External, Internal, 3rd-Party and Non-Sales
Selling.
External Selling is asking someone outside an entity (individual,
department, firm, organization, industry) to accept and adopt what is
being offered -- ideas, information, policies, procedures, skills, products
or services. It is External Selling that most people associate with the
word “selling.” External Selling gets its input of what to sell
from its Internal Selling.
Internal Selling is the transfer of information about ideas, policies,
procedures, skills, products or services between those inside an entity
(individual, department, firm, organization, industry). Internal Selling
can take place in many levels: for the individual, it is their thought
process, for a department, firm, organization, industry it is their conversations,
and when that information is passed on by their External Selling it becomes
others' Internal Selling. The transfers between levels is called:
3rd-Party Selling, helping others to buy/buy into what one offers
by teaching them how to sell what is being offered. If others do not believe
they can talk with confidence and intelligence and without the fear of
embarrassment, they will not buy/buy into or pass the information on.
It is in 3rd-Party Selling that sales are lost!
Non-Sales Selling occurs when those who do not see that they are
“in sales” by their negative action or omission cause the customer
to reject, return what is being offered or go to another source. They
soon find they are “in sales”-- negative sales.
One can be in all four Selling Situations at any one time. They are
not really separate but separately they can make or break the sale.
Alan J. Zell, Ambassador Of Selling, offers consulting
(on site and on-line), seminars and workshops on all aspects of business
that affect sales. You are invited to learn more about his programs and
services and read other articles on his web site – www.sellingselling.com.
He can be reached at azell@aol.com
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